jhine,
Perhaps the misogyny I see in the writer(s) of Revelation is symptomatic of the period. Revelation was written about 90 CE. Another book written towards the end of the first century is 1 Timothy and it reflects the same attitude towards women (1 Timothy 2:9-15).
Paul's attitude was that in God's sight all are the same - men and women are alike. 1 Timothy is one of several NT writings attributed to Paul that he was not responsible for. It was written decades after his death (64 CE) and its attitude reflects a situation that he did not envisage. Paul had been adamant that the end was imminent, so he was not concerned at organisational structure (bishops, etc.). Such matters became of interest to the church when the initial ardour cooled.
Doug